Teaching kindness starts with simple, memorable words that young children can understand and repeat. This kindness pledge is designed for preschool and kindergarten classrooms — a daily reminder that being kind matters.
Free Printable Posters
Download and display in your classroom. Available in color and black-and-white.
I use gentle hands I use nice words I take turns and share I listen when others talk I help when someone needs it When it's hard I try again
This pledge is short, simple, and easy for 3–6 year olds to memorize. Use it daily during morning meeting, circle time, or before transitions to reinforce kindness as a classroom value.
Why a Kindness Pledge Works
It gives children concrete language for how to treat others.
It creates a shared classroom expectation that everyone understands.
It builds a sense of community and belonging.
It helps teachers redirect behavior with a familiar phrase: "What do we do with our hands and words?"
It supports social-emotional learning (SEL) goals in a simple, daily practice.
Classroom Ideas for Using the Kindness Pledge
Recite the pledge together every morning during circle time or morning meeting.
Point to the poster as you say each line — this helps pre-readers follow along.
Keep it consistent: same time each day, same pace, same wording.
Use the pledge as a calm-down tool: "Let's take a breath and say our kindness pledge together."
Celebrate "kindness catches" — when you see a child living the pledge, acknowledge it specifically.
Who This Is For
Preschool classrooms (ages 3–5)
Pre-K and kindergarten programs
Childcare centers and daycare
Early childhood special education settings
Parents looking for a simple daily kindness routine
Pair the Pledge with Kindness Songs
Music reinforces learning. Pair the kindness pledge with songs about friendship, feelings, and being a good friend:
Miranda the Panda – a gentle friendship song about caring for others.